I will miss you, Brenda (chestnutandhare). You were one of my favorite people on the planet. You and your rabbit-headed pooka, Verity, who walked with you in troubled times, were stronger than I could ever be. Kind, smart and beautiful, you made everything you touched better. I am sad for those you left behind, but know that we are all better for having you as an example of how to live.
Too sad to write anything else. I am hoping the part where my heart aches passes quickly because I know you would want to be remembered with laughter, creativity and parties.